Miss El’s six month update

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And here we are, ½ year old Ellie Bellie.  She celebrated like any baby should – in Las Vegas!  :-P

Right before she turned 6 months she figured out how to roll from her tummy to her back. She’s been trying new foods and grabbing things we are holding in our hands or food we are putting in our mouths!

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She’s really into examining things by moving them from hand to hand, putting them in her mouth or just starting at it intently.  She still loves trees and I think she kind of loves the song “Part of your world” from The Little Mermaid.  She’s trying really hard to sit up unassisted and is not a fan when we take her toes out of her mouth during a diaper change.

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Ellie is really giving us a run for our (parenting) money but from I am understanding that is the natural evolutionary path of adding another kiddo to the mix.

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I want to remember this day

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August 16-17 2017 will be the day I remember that I did it. The thing I’ve been so fearful of as a mom of two.

Taking care of both my girls solo.  

Going out with both my girls solo.

(…No help or even moral support with me near by)

And I did it!

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Doing a daycare pick up with both kids is routine for me, but doing that, followed by trip to Melonhead to get Miss S’s hair cut, followed by a walk around the grocery store as we waited for the Drs walk in clinic to open was uncharted territory for me.

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The next day, I took them out for some fresh air in the morning, a grocery run in the afternoon and then to the library. The second day included a poopie diaper change in the trunk of our car while it rained cats and dogs. Then dealing with 2 meltdowns in a matter of 4 minutes. 

But what I will remember most about this day: I conquered my fear, I took joy in listening to Miss S belt it out on a frozen song (realizing that’s how I took found my singing voice – singing Disney songs), the interaction between the girls and that I conquered a fear.

Miss El’s five month update

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I think mom’s of multiples will agree, it’s harder to believe how quickly time passes after you had more than one baby.  I know I say this over and over again but I can’t believe it and feel I have to remind my future self of this phenomenan.
Our Ellie bellie is 5 months now.  She’s getting more proficient with playing with her toys and enjoys being in her bumbo.  She’s even found a toy she likes in her ‘circle of neglect’ aka the exersaucer.  She’s started baby cereal (we use this one) and has figured out that when a spoon is being moved towards her face she should open her mouth!  Although she seems to get super jealous when she sees any of us eating other than what she’s eating.  She rolled over today, although non of us where near her to see it (I was in the kitchen, where the counter was between her and I, Miss S was having a snack facing the opposite way and the mister was upstairs :P)
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She is very opinionated and always has a lot to say (or shriek!). She still loves watching swaying trees.  She LO0oO0oves watching her big sissy and will spot her from across the room.
On a side note, how have 5 months of my Mat Leave already finished!
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#NiagaraParks + Tips for easy getaways as a new family of 4

This past weekend we took our first over night trip as a family of four.  We had been in talks about what to do and where to go for a few months.  I was toying with the idea of either an AirBnB near a beachfront or the Niagara Fallsview Waterpark.  I am glad we went with the latter.  The waterpark was not crowded (and we went on two days) and walking around Clifton Hill and checking out The Falls is always entertaining.  Thankfully, the hotel we stayed at had breakfast so we filled up on food (twice for some of us) and didn’t have to worry about preparation or clean up!

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This was totally a kid centric trip, meaning we were back in the hotel room by 8pm.  And even though we were on a “stay-cation” we were still parenting (i.e.: reminding Miss S to eat her veggies or use her walking feet and dealing with baby nap times).  It was by no means easy (I mean travelling in any capacity with kids is a challenge) but it was worth it.

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Within minutes of getting into the hotel room, Miss S and Ellie were playing with each.  Miss S would make a funny noise over and over again and Ellie would laugh at her.  Miss S enjoyed the water way more than I’ve seen in the last year.  And Ellie got to take her first dip in the pool as well.

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Miss S got a few piggy back rides and Ellie got more sling time than usual.  We got a few family selfies and got to eat some Sweet Jesus :)

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Even with all the awesomeness there is some crankiness but everything is a learning opportunity.  If you are looking for some mom hacks to get you through a weekend away with your growing family consider these tips:

  1. A double stroller is must
  2. Adults need to have fun too (and not just cater to the kids)
  3. Always ask a stranger to take pictures of you and your family
  4. Look into hotels that offer continental breakfast or complimentary snack bars

Weekend Activities + Weekly Goals (Part 10)

We are fast approaching the middle of August which means the CNE is starting up and summer is winding down.  This summer as a family of 4 and mom of 2 has been probably the best one yet.  Although I can’t believe I’ve probably only had a handful of cocktails (#NormalizeBreastFeeding)

I know I am a week late with my weekend wrap up but honestly never late then never.  Because let’s be real here – when I do these types of posts, it’s mainly for myself (or my future self I should say)

And I think it goes without saying, I like to document things.  So without further ado, here is a quick recap of our Civic long weekend :)

Friday evening we braved the long weekend crowd and had dinner at our go-to family date night restaurant.  It’s always a little hairy because by the time we get there it’s the start of bed time routine.  Buuuutt we do it anyway, mostly because the Hubz and I are completed clueless about dinner by fridays (that’s a lie, we have the “what should we have for dinner” convo at least 5 times a day) and the change in scenery is a must for all of us.

Saturday, we had lunch with my in laws.  We went to a steak place, but thankfully I was able to find a veggie option that tasted pretty good!

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Sunday we met my family for lunch at my sisters.  Followed by some fun in the sun at a local park.
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Monday, we hung out with friends.  Pretty chill afternoon hanging out in the backyard with all of kids running around us lol.

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7 years of marriage + picture overload

If someone told me when I was 24 that in 10 yrs I will be celebrating 7 years of marriage.. I would probably give them a blank stare followed by a nervous laugh!  

But here we are… and we’ve accomplished quite the list:

  • 10 countries
  • 7 street races (me usually running 5 min ahead of the hubz)
  • 5 wedding reception performances (can’t believe he’s convinced me to do them)
  • 3 homes,
  • 2 MBAs
  • 2 daughters

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We actually had our first ALONE date in almost 5 months yesterday.  We went out to an Italian food resto (that would be a big drag bringing two kids to) and had a date like ‘old times’.  Here is a silly questionnaire we filled out while waiting for our food to arrive.

1) Who is older?
A: Me
B: Anuj

2) Who made the first move when we first met?
A: I did, oh wait you said when we ‘first met’ oh…
B: Me, tried to go in for a kiss and got shot down

3) Who studied the hardest in school?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

4) Who is smarter?
A: *points at Bhanu*
B: Anuj

5) Who is more creative?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

6) Who does more of the cooking?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

7) Who cleans more toilets?
A: Me
B: Anuj

8) Who said I love you first?
A: *looks down in embarrassment*
B: Me

9) Who spends more money?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

10) Where was our first kiss?
A: At Meeta’s wedding
B: Under the clock at distillery district

11) What date did we first meet?
A: uhhh dammit!…May 27?
B: May 27 2009
…we were both wrong it was May 20

12) Who is more likely to get lost getting back to the hotel while on vacation?
A: probably me
B: Anuj

13) Who hates driving in traffic the most?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

14) Who wears the pants in the relationship?
A: Both of us
B: Um loaded question I decline to respond

15) Who is better looking?
A: *points at Bhanu*
B: Anuj

16) Who talks more?
A: Bhanu
B: Me

17) Who says I love you more?
A: *points at Bhanu*
B: Anuj

18) What date did Anuj propose?
A: Sept 4 2009
B: Sept 19 2009

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