I love doing these because it gives me ideas of fun things to plan over the course of the next few months. In the past I would just a write a list out on our kitchen chalkboard, This one I actually made into a graphic (love making graphics) and printed it and taped it to our fridge with a piece of gold washi tape. :)
This list is a list for all of us! I am excited to try new things with the girls. Although Miss El is a little to little to fully enjoy these activities, Miss S will definitely soak it all up.
I take a LOT of pictures. Yet I still have to find an effective way to getting them off the hard drive (or rather first off the SD card) and into my hands. I did order this but still need to work on photo books for the last few years. Definitely need to put my head down and get those done and printed. Somewhat related story: Miss S saw one of her friends’ mom using a Canon DSLR and promptly told the Mister that she was using momma’s camera! Luv you girl!
In a world where we are scrolling through feeds and craving that insta-gratification I feel even more compelled to save our memories not for the vanity metrics but rather for us to cherish forever.
Enter the app 1 Second Everyday. This app and personal project has been by far the best creative endeavour I have taken in the last year. It only requires a few minutes a day and the output is BEAUTIFUL and UNREAL. I literally watch my compiled video of the last 7 months (ok 6 months because I was almost 9 months pregnant in February and forgot to take daily videos! Because taking naps trumped everything) several times a week and I am smiling ear to ear.
Miss S is already in love with it which makes my heart glow. 6 months of video is just under 3 minutes so another 6 months will take me to 6 minutes. What a perfect way to remember the year.
The weather finally stayed consistently warm this weekend which was pretty rad because I pretty much lived in my jean jacket!
On Friday, Thursday I watched Minimalism (check the blog later this week for my thoughts on it). And then on Saturday I started watching Food Matters(another documentary I plan on discussing). If it were up to me I’d watch documentaries more often but that would mean the hubs would be falling asleep on the couch more often too :P
I am currently working on my June EdCal and plan on sharing my EdCal process for May as well. Without going into too much detail I loved having a tangible place to see my blog post ideas and found that it allowed me to be on top of my posting schedule (considering that posting more consistently is one of my Mat Leave goals).
Ok onto how our weekend went!We had one of Miss S’s preschool friends 3rd birthday party on Saturday morning.Although birthday parties can take over your weekend – I actually love that the kiddos get to interact and see each other outside of school.The rest of the day we took it easy by fitting in a workout, doing some groceries and hanging out at home.Sunday we braved the rush at IKEA for an early lunch and to get my steps in. The Misters mom and I were in a Weekend Warrior challenge going on and she legit gave me a run for my money. Later in the day we headed over to the in laws to visit as my Father In Law just returned from India and it was my nephews birthday.
This would be our second annual BBQ and I am liking if this becomes an annual thing with our friends (of course we’d love to be able to host our friends over for a meal / potluck more often).
This time we kept it pretty casual by inviting our friends via our whatsapp group chats (ha!).
On the grill the mister had:
Veggie and paneer skewers
Hotdogs (halal and veggie)
Eggplant “burgers” (with spinach mayo sauce)
Simple BBQ chicken drumsticks
Plus one of friends brought a deep fryer to make fish and chips.
With our society becoming more and more busy (long hours at the office, kids extra curricular activities etc) and on our screens than #IRL, I think it’s even more important to put the effort towards friendships, in person interactions and events.
Although a pretty huge undertaking, planning and executing a lunch or dinner party is always a goal/to do item on our mental check lists. That said, we definitely weren’t thinking it through much because during all the prep work we were dealing with Miss El’s feeding schedule and skipping the elusive toddler nap (for Miss S). But I am glad we managed to pull it off and enjoyed ourselves in the process.
Yea for LOOONNNG weekends! #TheUnofficialStartToSummer. Technically the weekend isn’t over yet. We are having friends over for a BBQ today. We just finished marinating some chicken and reviewing tomorrows menu. Our group of friends (and their kiddos) are full of variety: vegetarians, vegans, carnivores, food allergies etc. It’s actually kind of fun to be creative and think of menu items to cater to such a group. I hope I remember to take lots of pictures :)
We also hosted my in laws for a belated Mother’s Day celebration. The Mister and I enjoyed curating the menu and then actually making it happen. We used to do a lot of side-by-side cooking / working in the kitchen. But for a few years, MBAs and kids kind of took over so… really loving that we are getting to do this again!
Okay on to a review of last weeks goals:
Finish reading my book(made some progress but still not done)
Gather ingredients for this bread recipe (I didn’t realize how much research is required to make bread – this needs its own post)
Next week I plan on taking it easy, relax and just generally getting “caught up” rather than go-go-go.
Finish reading my book
Continue research/gathering ingredients for the bread recipe
Take more photography ex: OOTD, family photos, sisters snapshots
Get my 10K steps 5/7 days next week & Work out 4/7 times
Get a grip with my laundry piles
Update my Etsy shop
Water colour painting an a new canvas part print
Do 10 sun salutations
List out monthly goals for June
Start working on some photos books
I’ve dropped the meditation and journaling items on my list for now.
I am torn between working out and sitting still.
I am torn between blogging and journaling.
Because these activities are one in the same to me. Running clears my mind and I truly believe has a meditative effect on me. And although I am a firm believe of putting pen to paper, when I can’t (read: not making it a priority in my morning) I’ll take regular blogging and painting over it any day.
Honestly I started the post almost 4 days ago and never got around to finishing it. Between being there with my kids, cooking, laundry, getting back into fitness/fitbit, running errands, trying my very hardest to spend time with my hubby (while trying my hardest not to pass out on the couch at 8:30) my 5am scheduled posts have taken a back seat. I let one slide (ok Monday’s post also didn’t almost happen on time) but definitely going to put in the work to get Friday’s post in on time. Why the pressure on myself? Well first off its not pressuring myself, writing, taking beautiful photos, editing, thinking, setting deadlines, dressing up for an OOTD – makes me feel good about myself. Plus I LOVE the feeling of accomplishment and staying motivated is a huge goal for me over the next year. Okay now that THATS out of the way…. :)
Mother’s Day 2017 was ahhh-mazzzing! I got the sweetest potted seedling from Miss S (c/o her preschool class) and a gorgeous pendent necklace (similar to what I posted here). Plus I got treated to alone time in the bathroom (I know such a luxury), Breakfast in bed with the cutest homemade gift from the Mister and Miss S (and of course Miss El).
I listened to the most refreshing podcast episode this morning about parenting your little ones at typical summer events (such as weddings and grad ceremonies – both of which we will be attending in the coming months). I would love if my kids could take every nap in the own bed/crib and don’t have to nag them to eat their meal – but having friends/family and the related events doesn’t always lend itself to the perfect parenting situations :) Plus the mister and I are on the go ourselves (between corporate careers, working out, schooling, night outs etc) so I am glad that I stumbled upon the episode to remind me to keep perspective and plan!
The 3 important things to remember:
know you child’s tolerance level (a kid will only act in a way she is programmed for their age and it’s on me as a parent to adjust to that thinking)
come prepared with loose parts that allow for quiet yet active place (lol sounds scary but each parent knows their child’s safety level so some items that were suggested are feathers, scarves etc)
don’t apologize for your kids behaviour (somewhat related to 1 above)
Hope everyone had a wonderful Mother’s Day weekend!