You know as a parent you are doing something creatively right (especially when it literally feels like chaos in the house 24/7) when you kid asks you to put the photograph you just captured on your camera in their room. But what exactly am I doing: I am taking time to do something creative everyday. Luckily my kiddos see what I do.
We went on a stroller walk, which I turned into a photography walk because it ended up being the only chance I had all week to use my camera. I’ve kept my 50MM lens on my DSLR for about a month now to create a constraint in hopes that it would allow my creativity to flourish within a restriction. It has – and I am loving it.
We had a great weekend, family dinners, breakfasts out, soccer practice, lots of coffee, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and even a McD’s run (because we are so used to daycare taking care of lunches :P)
My to-do list is long and already in play. I even got started on some of my planning.
Mat leave is wonderful and hard. The second time around it’s definitely more work. The first time around, I don’t remember ever making/preparing dinner before 5pm or doing dishes for that matter. These days I am constantly multitasking and with that I fight for my personal time. I need it for myself and for my family.
On the hard days, I want to remind myself on ways to pick myself up. So here goes:
1. Consume something positive or uplifting: My go-tos are an inspiring Ted Talk, Pod Cast or listening to my summer play list. I know I’ve been discussing and trying to understand #CreateMoreThanYouConsume but when the thing you are consuming is positive and uplifting I really believe it pushes you to create something. You’ll have a smile on your face, you’ll be filled with inspiration or you’ll actually create something to deliver what you’ve learned. Here, here and here are somethings I’ve consumed worth sharing.
2. Drink water: and lots of it. When I am feeling blah, a light goes off in my head “drink more water, drink water now, finish that entire bottle and then refill it”. So without thinking I do just that. On some level I think it’s my brain or unconscious self saying, get rid of the toxins and you’ll start to feel more content.
3. Exercise: Whether it’s a stroller walk in the mall or run on the treadmill while the baby sleeps, stop procrastinating and do it. The endorphins will kick in and you’ll have an automatic smile on your face.
5. Get Outside: Fresh air does wonders. Even if it’s only 5 minutes of sitting in the warmth of the sun. The babe will be mesmerized by something in nature which will give you a few minutes to yourself :)
I am sad to report that my tomato plant called it quits over the weekend. I came home on Saturday afternoon to see that the plant stalks had fallen over. To be honest I knew that maybe the plant was not doing so well as it started looking more like weeds than the large leaves I was hoping to see.
I didn’t bother stalking it as the instructions didn’t say to but I do regret not moving it to a larger pot and updating the soil. I’ll definitely needed some more love and planning. And I probably should’ve have watered it more often #BadPlantMom
I’ve definitely picked up a few tricks for next year, such as spacing the seeds, using more than one planter, starting from a seedling and maybe trying a few varieties.
My gardening goals are on hold until next year – time to start pinning and planning for next spring!
We had an awesome weekend. The weather was superb and the blazing heat was welcomed because we experienced such an overcast and gloomy spring.
Friday we had wings at home and then packed up the car to get ready for the next day. We spent the better part of the day at the beach we were pleasantly surprised as to how much Miss S enjoyed herself but were perplexed as to why Miss El seemed so confused the entire time we were there. We later realized it was because we were all wearing sunglasses (and maybe she couldn’t recognize us lol).
Sunday we were at a birthday party. Backyard bouncy castle, Pizza with chip toppings and lots of kids of course.
The workweek was actually spent running sooo many errands. From doing groceries, to gift shopping, to getting last minute stuff for the day at the beach as well as planning for Miss S’ 3rd birthday.
Also I’d just like to add (so my future self can remember) that even with this list of weekly goals and regular maternity leave tasks, I still accomplish and complete many other to-do items to run and mange the house like: clean the floors, prep dinner, make lunches, do preschool drop off/pick up, general tidying, multiple loads of laundry, pay bills, claim receipts etc etc in any case here is how I did with my goals last week.
Read another chapter of the book I am reading (sadly no, I am struggling to find the right time to read – holding a book while nursing isn’t very comfortable)
Bread this week? Bread this week! (nope, and I realized i can’t commit to this goal until after June)
Take some more everyday photography shots and move photos from SD Card yep, see this post
Get my 10K steps 5/7 days next week & Work out 4/7 times DONE
Take Miss El to the Born to Read library program (weather did not permit, and parking this until the end of June)
Figure out a layout for our 2015 photo album Yep and started
Update family room painting from black on white to white on black
Put away all clean laundry
Order Miss S birthday Cake (we talked to the bakery and got the details and will be happening tomorrow)
Ok 5 out of 10 this past week. The next couple of days are all about Miss S birthday!
Read a chapter
Take some everyday/creative photography
Get my 10K steps in 5/7 days and workout 4/7 days
Tuesday Self Care: Mediate, Bath and Yoga
Put away clean laundry
Order birthday cake
Finalize day of party plan + list of things to bring
So I finally took the first steps to building a backyard garden. Albeit they are baby steps. We bought 2 sweet basil plants. For now they are hanging out in their default plastic planters and with their original nutrient rich soil. I have big plans from these small beginnings.
Tulips from the Hubz
Find [kid friendly] planter(s) with good drainage
Buy more herbs (cilantro and dill for sure) and tomato seedlings
Move all plants to their new home planters (which I heard is a process)
For now the plants are sitting on our coffee table because the family room has the most light in the house. I’ve been monitoring the soil and the overall “hefty-ness” of the planter to judge how much water is needed (at the advice of the lady in the Lowes garden centre).
We had a quieter than expected halloween this year. Only me and the little miss dressed up, no pumpkin patch, couldn’t find most of my halloween decor and we didn’t even get to carve a pumpkin (thanks in part to the Mister’s school and all the other festivals happening at this time of year).
Buuuttt that doesn’t mean I can’t have any pumpkins in my life :)
An avocado and a little horse wangler (horse wrangler aka cow girl!!)
Captured these interesting looking jack-os at the grocery store – how do they even get like this?
Annnddd a little throwback to last year :) Anyone else ready to chuck out the rest of this year’s halloween stash of candy??