I felt like crap for being so vocal on my blog about wanting to do something and then not being able actually to do it. I am OK with putting out my goals and not being able to complete them mainly because I enjoy the process – but I really really wanted to make bread!
And then, on a whim I found a super easy recipe that totally jived with my way of cooking (simple ingredients / minimal steps). And ✷poof✷ just like that – I made bread!!
But I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about obstacles that come in the way of the goals you set for yourself.
I think with the older I get, the more I realize that obstacles are a way to grow. This was not always the case – I used to think that obstacles were something telling me that my goals were never going to be reached. Although not being able to bake bread because I didn’t have the right tools isn’t a serious obstacle, it was definitely a set back in reaching a goal.
So there are three things I/you can do when you are met with obstacles on the journey to your goals.
- Check/Understand/Accept your feelings
It’s completely normal to feel defeated and sad. It’s also important to let yourself feel those emotions. Take some time to recover and then allow yourself to move past those feelings as well. I say this because even though baking bread may not seem serious but it’s more about the principle behind it reaching the goal. (i.e.: I told myself I wanted to bake bread, I told the blogosphere/anyone who read the post I wanted to bake bread, I was excited for the challenge/take my cooking skills to the next level etc)
- Focus on research and creativity and set smaller milestone goals
Sometimes hitting an obstacle means you need to re-evaluate your efforts and plan. It’s possible that there is another way of reaching your goal and it takes hitting an obstacle to make you realize that. This is also totally fine and it’s a great way to appreciate the journey.
- Know that you will get there one way or another
I read the other day that humans are self talkers by nature. The only problem is – most of our self talk is negative. I think it’s totally OK to tell ourselves that our goals are achievable and we’ll be able to make it happened. I don’t think it makes us conceded instead it adds to our confidence.
Okay – those are my thoughts on obstacles. Now back to the bread!
These super simple garlic knots were sooooo good. The hubz and the girls loved them – Miss S had 2-3 and Ellie could have easily had 2. They use all purpose flour and fat free greek yogurt (that is soo cool to me aka no yeast)!
They are a real treat (crispy on the outside, soft on the inside) and smothered in a garlicky butter …YUM! I think next time I’ll try this recipe with half all purpose and half whole wheat to up the healthfulness. And although I personally didn’t feel the need for a dip I am totally down for one…(would a white garlic dip be too much garlic?? ;) lol!)