Miss Sanya turns FOUR

I honestly can’t believe I am a mom to a 4 year old.  It’s hard for me to believe this is my life.  That said I am grateful my girls chose me and that I get to take this motherhood journey.  I am learning everyday the type of mother/guide/coach/authority I want to be in my daughters life.  I am learning from them, from educating myself and from my own past.

This past Sunday we did a joint 4th Birthday / Father’s day party.  Having so much family in the city make every holiday messy and chaotic.  And if I am being honest it’s always stressful.  And because right now the adults out number the kids, the kids get shafted lol.  I think if we had more littles to focus on the dynamic would be much more FUN!

With all that said I am pleased at how well the party turned out.  Before we invited everyone, we confirmed with Miss S if she was OK to share her party with the dads as it was Father’s Day, and because she is incredibly understanding she said yes.  We seamless integrated both events.

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This year I kind of flaked on writing a birthday card for my eldest born (#momguilt in full effect).  But I really hope she knows that I love her with all my heart.  That even though I am not a perfect and self proclaimed bad mom that I am doing my best.  I am so incredibly grateful for her independence, obedience and leadership in our family.  She does try her best (even when it comes to eating foods she hates i.e. smoothies or scrambled eggs) and I do try my best to everything with love first.   She’s so creative and she’s always ready to some crafty activity with her girl guide of a mom.

I pray that our relationship will grow and adapt as we both “grow up”.  I will be her guiding light and voice of reason whenever she needs me.  I always do my best to give her sage old advice vs what I think she should do.  I promise to keep myself educated and aware so I don’t fall into typical traps as one does as a girl mom.

Gift Guide for the girls

I would love it if the girls only got 1 gift from family members on Christmas.  In the past Miss S has definitely been “spoiled” but for good reason.  She was the first grandchild and everyone was excited!

I would prefer for the girls to have a few quality toys that encourage creative play, idea generating and innovation.  We already have tons of toys for ages 6 months to 2 years so Eli is covered but I have given the grand parents/aunts/uncles one gift idea.  Hopefully our house won’t be overflowing with toys on Dec 26th!

I am also planning on having Miss S decide which toys she’d like to donate in the new year (something I know she or Eli won’t be using any more).

In any case here is the gift guide I put together.  This is great for girls ages 2.5-3.5 and babies :)

 

One by Kathryn Otoshi

One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss

Lite Brite
Magna Tiles
Melissa & Doug Puzzels

Candy Canes Candy

Coffee Cup Teether

Melissa & Doug Band-In-A-Box

WildONE // 1st birthday party

As you might now (or maybe you’ve been following along)…

Miss El turned ONE this month.

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It took us a LONG time to figure out what kind of party to have for her in terms of theme and event.  We went back and forth between a big hall party (typical desi style) and an intimate gathering at home.  We finally went for the latter and I am so glad we did!  As much as a I love the idea of a big event it was much more relaxing and engaging to do our own little thing :)

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When the theme of a WILDONE popped up on one of my endless Google and Pinterest searches I was so obsessed!  The words/phrase described Ellie to a T.  With Miss S I had decided on a theme (Shabby-Chic) months in advance.  I knew the colours for the party were pink, gold and off white.  I knew the sweets I wanted to serve, the DIY burlap banners I was going to make and even the search for a perfect vendor cake started when she was 9 months old.  I was a little late to DIYing for our little Lo, but I think the theme and the party came together perfectly in the end!

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The colours were black, gold and green (with a little bit of pink thrown in for good measure).  It was very easy to decorate the house: lots of toy animals and foliage!

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For the banner:

  1. Asked the Hubz to draw the word WILDONE in block letters
  2. My father-in-law exactoknifed them out
  3. I got some faux foliage (similar foliage) from Dollar Tree, cut off the leaves (in varying sizes) and hot glued them to the letters.
  4. I felt that it was missing something so I added little white flowers (from the same said foliage) and then pops of dark or light green paint to add some more depth.  I also used the left over branches on the ends.
  5. Lastly I added the green daisies for a more feminine touch!

*This is something I saw online and then DIYed to make my one (here and here is some inspiration)

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We knew that we HAD to do a cake smash (considering it didn’t really work at Miss S’s birthday).  So I decorated her high chair with black and gold streamers (to match the invitation colours) and added a vine of flowers.  To our sideboard we added a variety of stuffed animals and huge tropical leaves.  It was a perfect set up for a WILDONE’s first sugar!

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For the cake we wanted something cute and not the fondant cake that seems to be so popular these days.  To be honest I am so confused by fondant!  I grew up eating soft moist birthday cakes that have whip cream fillings (no custards, no butter cream and no fruit please and thanks!) and a plethora of whip cream slathered all over it!  I know the more expensive cakes also have butter cream but because Miss S can’t eat that stuff (and I personally don’t like it) I was happy with whip cream :)  I actually found this at Fortino’s.  They do a variety of designs on cupcakes (with a count of 24 or 48) shaped into the number of your choice.  I told them I wanted a nature scene (greenery and a water front) and then I added the toy animals myself!

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Off the Shoulder Top | Mens Polo | Birthday Crown (ours is old, but this one is so cute!)

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These cute dresses are from Marshalls (almost identical) but here is a similar option.  This is our highchair and we LOVE it!

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Whoa…that was picture heavy!

Outside of all this, we ordered/made Mediterranean food for lunch and had the cupcakes,  fruit and ice cream for dessert.  We also played 2 games.  I know it’s very popular to post to social media your baby’s monthly pictures and even though I didn’t really do that I did send these update photos to my family.  So one of our games was “Monthly mugshot match up” – and yep you had to guess which picture was taken in which month by solely looking at El’s face!  It was surprisingly hard and everyone got majority of them wrong!  The other game we played involved answering some trivia about El along with leaving her a sweet message.   I kept all the trivia sheets (with the special messages) for her to read when she’s older :)  I know kid’s birthday’s get a bad rep but gosh I love them!

A new years Life Lately post

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I say life lately – but this is more of a brain dump!  (I started writing this post on Monday and it’s now Friday and I am finally getting around to hit the publish button)

Weekend Recap
We actually had a nice weekend.  Friday we were at a first birthday/Lohri party for a dear friend of mine’s daughter.  The party was at an Indian Banquet hall and I have to say it was so well done.  A play area for the kids, candy bar, amazing decor, well planned table games, even the entertainment was something new.  Although now I am more convinced to do a small intimate celebration for our Ellie.  I do feel kind of guilty for not doing the same things with both kids but I do have keep my sanity!

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Starting Meal-Prep
I did meal prep on the weekend in an effort to practice for the real deal in a few months.  Here is what I made:  Breakfast options included 2 days of oven baked omelettes, 2 days of green smoothies (to be paired with pb on toast), 1 day of oatmeal.  For mains I made slow cooker eggplant parmesan, buffalo cauliflower and we made a huge batch of brown rice.  Also I had a coconut chickpea stew in the freezer that I pulled out for dinner and lunch!  I’ve been eyeing these meal prep containers for over a year – I should just get them!

So what have I learned from meal prepping / using my slow cooker is that:

  • Meal prep 2.5 mains for use during the week as lunches or dinners
  • Prep veggies/legumes as the 0.5 for 1) above.  So things like the roasted cauliflower, roasted chickpeas, cooked black beans or steamed broccoli or peas (which I am doing next week).  These can be added to anything to make a meal more full (or to pasta or rice for kiddo meals).
  • Make a big batch of grains for use during the week.  I like to add some to a big salad and it can obviously be used as a base.
  • Prep some healthy snacks like energy bites or protein cookies (I didn’t do it this time but I will try next time)
  • Have tons of sauces, spreads, toppings and garnishes on hand.  I made a ranch dressing out of mayo, milk, onion powder and dill – it was so good and I was quite impressed.  I hate buying store bought dressing to only use it once or twice and then have it be a complete waste.   Other things we have used this week: cilantro, hot sauce, roasted sesame seeds, almond butter, cacao nibs etc
  • Plan your grocery run and make sure you have a list
  • Do the groceries before the weekend (if you can).  I find it very tiring and impossible to do the groceries on the weekend with the kids in tow and then to some how find the time to prep the food.  I haven’t figured out when to make the food (right now it’s a little at night and little in the morning and lots in between) so having the food in the house gives me some leeway.

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Watching
I am heavy into some royal history on Netflix.  Reason being two fold – I find the modern royals fascinating and I get a history lesson along the way.

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Fitness
The mister and I are trying to find out new norm for working out.  Gone are the days where we could spend upwards of an hour at the gym.  Having kids changes everything.  Do cardio, resistance training, some abs and of course stretch all in one session.   We’ve realized the best we can do is 15 minute intervals.  So we are starting again, starting small and slow.
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Reading
I just finished reading The Rushing Woman’s Syndrome.  It was actually a really great read for the point in my life where I am now.  I’d love to a review and share my favourite parts of the book in a later post (a girl can dream).  But after reading this book, I feel even more empowered to care for what I eat and how I treat myself #Selfcare.  I started reading Overdressed, and it’s already grabbed my attention.  And I still have to go back and finish reading Ishmael.

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PS: All images are from Tumblr (credited as found)

Happy New Year + #OneLittleWord

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Happy New Year!

This is a big year for our family.  So many things are lined up for this year.   It makes me both excited and nervous (in a good-ish way LOL)

I have given my #OneLittleWord a lot of thought.  (You can read what lasts years word is here).

This years word is MORE:

More Memories
More Experiences
More Time
More Reading
More Creating
More Exploring
More Giving
More Movement
More Water
More Plants
More Saving the Planet (lol)
More Writing
More Working on my Goals
More Intention
More Blogging
More Pictures
More deep breathing
More getting things done
More Visualization
More Journaling
More Friends
More Datenights
More Family
More Living
More Calm
More Happiness
More Success
…and definitely More Love

Christmas Movies to Watch (when the kids are in bed)

I am really not a RomCom kinda of girl.  I used to be all about he scary movies – but then I became an adult and couldn’t take them any more lol.  Thankfully the Hubz and I have the same taste in movies which is either sci-fi, political drama or unbelievably inappropriate comedy.  And thats what this list is about.  These movies are the perfect thing to watch when you need to add an extra shot (or 3) of Baileys to your hot coco.  Or who am I kidding, maybe it’s straight up whiskey LOL.  They are movies to watch when you magically go the kids to bed (at the same time).  When you want to watch something light but still partake in the Christmas feels.  This list is for you (and for me because… let’s be real).  So whip up a batch of these healthy-ish cookies and turn on your movie streaming network of choice :)

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