A few weeks ago I celebrated my birthday and realized that it’s been a while since I’ve done a birthday post! (ok almost 10 years ago)
So in celebration of my 43rd birthday, here are 43 lessons that have provided me with guidance, disciplined my days and provided motivation when I needed it most <3
- Energy is everything
- Everything is multiplied by gratitude
- Know that it will turn out better than expected
- Your mindset is the gateway to every transformation
- People aren’t thinking about you, they are thinking about themselves
- You are free to reinvent yourself at anytime
- Friendships change. Nurture the ones that feel like growth and remember not everyone grows with you
- Stop relying on external validation
- Laugh more
- Your standards above everything (decide your future and teach others how to treat you)
- When you feel lost, ask yourself “what would my most abundant/higher self/happiest self be doing”
- Protect your piece (because if it costs you your peace, its too expensive)
- When others judge, it’s based on their own lived experiences and biases
- Healing is a journey (it isnt pretty and it doesnt mean you won’t be triggerd – because you will be, but it’s worth it every time you act from a place of self awareness and compassion for yourself and those who may trigger you)
- Trust your intiution
- If you aren’t willing to risk the unusual, you’ll have to settle for the ordinary
- Find a spiritual practice that works for you
- Don’t expect from others what you can’t do for yourself first
- Clean up what you consume (offline, online, people, experiences, drama – becomes who you are)
- Stop watching mainstream news
- Confidence is actions first, feelings later
- Travel to learn more about the world and yourself
- Everything in moderation, including moderation
- Embody your feminine power
- Train your inner dialogue (Mirror self talk is the best way to start your morning, you can still be humble and hype yourself up)
- Embarrassment is the ticket to evolution
- Let your be mentored by your highest self
- Put yourself out there
- The life you love will look very different than what you thought
- Celebrate your own damn self (buy yourself the flowers, always have chilled champagne in the fridge, give yourself the 5 love langugaes)
- You don’t get what you want, you get what you are
- People will behave from the level on consiousness they are at
- Keeping promises to yourself is the first step in building confidence
- Every situation is an opportunity for growth
- Ego is loud, confidence is silent
- Compliment yourself daily (Dress confidently, the world benefits when you show up as your boldest self)
- Upgrade your self worth (You get what you believe you deserve)
- You get what you identify with not what you desire (self concept over everything)
- If you want better friendships, be a better friend to yourself – the right people will feel like peace, not performance
- feelings of shame keep you focused on your identity, accountability keeps your fixed on what you do
- take yourself out on solo dates
- It’s not about being busy, but doing the work that aligns with YOUR goals
- Detach from outcomes, fall in love with the journey instead
