Weekend memories

Other than the washer breaking down on Friday evening (every mom’s nightmare I am sure) the Hubz surprised me and came home early so we scooped up Miss El and headed out to grab a small bite (while Miss El napped).  It was so nice to be surprised and have a change in my afternoon routine.  Saturday, my mom, Miss S, Ellie and I attended a baby shower.  Having been out of the house and operating outside of their normal routine, they were angels.  But the craziness did set in around 6pm and we had to hightail it out of there.  (My mom got a glimpse of it and I hope it didn’t scare her!)

Sunday morning we made a trip to Lowes to finalize on a new washer and dryer and then Miss S went off to ball sports with the Hubz.  While they were out I was cleaning the house like a mad women because our cousins were coming over for a late lunch.  Ellie in the ring sling and me vacuuming the main floor was quite the cardio workout.

After lunch, the four of us hung out on the drive way.  Sunday hangs on the driveway are our new thing :)  It’s a nice change of scenery yet still being at home.  Close to the fridge, bubbles, the kids toys and sitting in the shade while the sun sets behind our house is the best feeling!

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July : Currently

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Sneaks (50% off right now!) | Jeans (DIY distressed) | Handbag | Tank

Looking forward to: The weekend, seeing my parents and Anuj’s cousins

Loving: that I’ve been able to workout consistently

Eating: Lots lentils in different forms (salads, loafs and daals obi)

Drinking: lots of water (getting up to 2L +) and instant coffee

Planning: a capsule wardrobe for an upcoming trip

Ordering: diapers, extra long iphone and charge cable

Reading: Ishmael (very thought provoking read)

Greek inspired lentil salad

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I am Indian, a desi, a first generation Indo-Canadian and I very rarely cook daal.

Why?

I just find indian food to be very mushy or overcooked.  Well some of it I love: Saag or Panner but all my life, I’ve always loved salad (I can see everything, it’s crunchy and healthy obvi :P) so eating indian food that has been cooked to an oblivion isn’t really appetizing to me.

But, I had no idea that the base of a salad could be something other than lettuce, kale or spinach.  I mean I’ve made quinoa salads but never a daal based salad.

Until I found this recipe.

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What you need:

Lentils:

  • 2 cups of brown green lentils
  • 2 Bay Leaves
  • 2 Cloves of Garlic

Dressing:

  • 1/2 tsp Salt
  • 1/2 tsp whole mustard seeds
  • 6 tbls olive oil
  • 2 tbls vinegar (I didn’t have cherry so I used white)
  • Pepper to taste

Everything else:

  • Cucumber
  • Avocado
  • Olives
  • Soft cheese to top (I used feta)

What you’ll do:

  1. Cook the lentils by first rinsing them a few times in cold water, then adding them to a pot with the garlic and bay leaves and filling the pot with water 2 inches over the lentils.  Let the lentils boil on high heat for 20 minutes and then on medium-low for another 15 minutes until they are tender.  Remove from heat, remove bay leaves and garlic and strain.  Place lentils in the fridge to cool
  2. Add the salt, mustard seeds, olive oil and vinegar to a bowl and whisk until the mix emulsifies
  3. Chop up the cucumber, Avo and slice the olives and cheese as required.
  4. Mix everything (except the cheese) until everything is fully coated in the dressing.
  5. Plate your salad and top with cheese.  Serve as a side or as a main :)

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Inspiring creativity in my kids

You know as a parent you are doing something creatively right (especially when it literally feels like chaos in the house 24/7) when you kid asks you to put the photograph you just captured on your camera in their room. But what exactly am I doing:  I am taking time to do something creative everyday.  Luckily my kiddos see what I do.

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We went on a stroller walk, which I turned into a photography walk because it ended up being the only chance I had all week to use my camera.  I’ve kept my 50MM lens on my DSLR for about a month now to create a constraint in hopes that it would allow my creativity to flourish within a restriction.  It has – and I am loving it.

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We had a great weekend, family dinners, breakfasts out, soccer practice, lots of coffee, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and even a McD’s run (because we are so used to daycare taking care of lunches :P)

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My to-do list is long and already in play.  I even got started on some of my planning.

Yesterday’s OOTD and brain dump

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Shoes | Skirt | T-shirt | Specs

  1. Some nights…dinners include veggies like bok choy and mushrooms other days it’s the 4th bowl of cheerios that day 😶 #ToddlersRule
  2. I can’t be the only one who feels unkempt when my nails are bare of lacquer.
  3. For the remainder of the month of July my goals are to 1) finish #The100dayproject and 2) create my Return to Work strategy which will be executed in a few months.  These are both huge goals and complete opposite spectrums of my life (creativity and career – really wish they were more aligned).  I am planning on deciding on 3 main tasks for each goal and then breaking up those tasks into small action items for the coming weeks.
  4. Started using MyFitnessPal to track my food intake because I realized portion control  was not happening and volume eating potentially does not work for me.
  5. I need a new photobook creating site (Shutterfly isn’t my jam at the moment) – send me your suggestions or leave a comment below!

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Everything I am wearing is vintage aka already in my closet and has been for a few years (minus the shoes).  Although I want to buy so many cute summer things I am not (I am not perfect but I am doing my best).   You can read more about that here.

A day in the life: 3 months of Mat Leave

I have reached 3 months (ok almost 5 months now) of mat leave and I am pretty stoked at some of the cool things I’ve accomplished.  The first time I went on Mat Leave – the unstructured day left me feeling confused and flailing.

This time around I’ve been reading more, listening to more music/podcasts, blogging regularly, taking lots of pictures (+ making more attempts to print photos), writing / bullet journaling, working out and generally being more present as a mom to a baby (the first time around, I was surrounded by a lot of help which didn’t allow me to experience what I am experiencing now).

Along with all of this, I / we have been way more busy.  Adding a second kiddo doesn’t just double the amount of work in your home, career and personal life; it literally feels like our effort in all of these areas has increase exponentially!

Thankfully, I haven’t been consumed with all of that “busyness” I’ve set some goals for myself (like getting my steps in, reduce unnecessary spending and baking bread – ok hasn’t happened yet but it will) and I am happy at how productive I’ve been and feel like I’ve been really living up to my #onelittleword for the year.

So for #MemoriesSake I wanted to document a day in the life.

4:45am – Miss El gets a little restless and immediately hear her (I am the lightest sleeper).  I  hopped out of bed and see that she’s wrangled her arms out of the swaddle (we are currently co sleeping with her in the same room).  I pick her up and bring her to our bed for a feed.

5:30am – I’ve swaddled her back up and put her in the nursery crib for her early morning nap.  I jump into bed for another 15-20min of sleep as the Mister gets up.

6:20am – I get a kiss on my forehead from the Hubz and he tells me the time.  We usually go wake up Miss S together at her request the night before.  I quickly change into my workout clothes, grab my water bottle, glasses, phone and fitbit (nope haven’t even brushed my teeth yet #MatLeaveLife).  If we are lucky she is still sleeping and we watch her for a few moments curled up with her blankie – if not we are met with a threenager :P

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6:35am – After our good mornings/wrangling Miss S out of bed, I usually help her in the bathroom (brush, potty, change her clothes) while the Hubz gets downstairs to start their breakfast.  I tell her about the fun things coming up this week/weekend, we say some daily affirmations, we talk about her baby sis etc.  Afterwards we head downstairs for breakfast.

6:50am – They are eating breakfast and I pull out the Mister’s lunch.  I brush my teeth in the downstairs bathroom and/or walk circles around our mainfloor while brushing #GottaGetMyStepsIn and then down a bottle of water with my vitamins (this one and then this one)

7:20am – I give them both kisses goodbye and then check on Miss El using our baby monitor.  Fingers crossed she stays asleep while I workout.

8:00am – After the treadmill I did some resistance training and the 7 minute workout (current challenge I have going with some friends).  I come upstairs to finish up with stretches and foam rolling.  I might have anywhere from 5 to 40 minutes left of #MeTime before Miss El gets up.  I try and fit in a quick bite to eat.

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8:20am – Annndd she’s up!  She so happy to see me and me to see her!  She does some stretches in her crib then I pick her up, changer her diaper, giver her a D drop and put her on her tummy for some tummy time.  This is usually when I write in my Five Minute Journal.

9:30am – By now I’ve given her another feed, we’ve cuddled, giggled and played on the bed so we head downstairs.  I put Miss El down to play on her mat and I tidy up the table from breakfast (which ususally means dumping the dishes in the sink and leaving them there all day – ha!).  Once I can tell she’s getting restless, I either hold her facing forward with one hand and use the other to do somethings around the house (maybe laundry or maybe check social media) or put her in the sling.

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10:20am – She’s in her crib for another nap.  This is usually when I try doing something creative, or write or take pictures for the blog.  If it’s an errand day, I’ll usually try to get things done while she takes a car seat nap (groceries or some shopping etc).

11:15am – And she’s up again.  Change her diaper and some more tummy time (which is happens on this nursing pillow).  I give her another feed and we head downstairs again.

11:30am – I start prepping my lunch or make a cup of coffee or tea. I water the plants and pick up the house.  Miss El is either playing on her tummy or sitting in the jumper looking out the window :)

12:30pm – She seemed a little drowsy so I put her down again. I eat my lunch with either my computer (so I can write), my book or the TV.  I’ve been watching waaaayyy too many Netflix documentaries.  So today it’s my book.  If I wasn’t able to get in a workout in the morning (as in Miss El woke up as soon as the Mister and Miss S left the house) I’ll fit in a quick workout here.

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2:00pm –  It’s another diaper change and then playtime on her tummy.   I give her a feed then put her in her little crib and pull it into the bathroom so I can take a shower. If I am lucky she’ll let me half straighten my hair :)

2:35pm – She wants to be held a bit by this time so it’s either than one hander (facing forward) or into the sling.

3:45pm – Another nap! I take stalk of what needs to be done to make the house presentable.  This nap also means time to prep dinner.

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4:45pm – She’s up and gets her diaper changed then I give her another feed. We will chit chat a bit, have a mini photoshoot then head downstairs.

5:30pm – One last feed before the witching hour begins.

6:02pm – The mister and big sis are home, we eat dinner, play and start bedtime routines. What a day!

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All images are from pinterest!