Wow I can’t believe I’m starting another kiddo update series.
The last month has been so great and so challenging at the same time. And at times, I get stressed and call the Hubz (at work no less) in a panic but I also keep reminding myself to have perspective because the days are long but the years are short.
Miss El is 1 month old and most of her day is spent nursing, in someone’s arms, in a sling or sleeping. As of late she’s started to use her hands to feel/bat at things discovering textures, our skin, random parts of her toys. She is also a snuggler! She will burry her head into the nook between my head and shoulder and always makes herself comfy when she wants to listen to my heartbeat on my chest.
She instantly knows when Miss S is beside her or
squeezing her too hard giving her a hug. I sense she knows who her sister is. It’s very interesting to see them interacting (simple things like looking into each others eyes) – which is surprising to me because I didn’t think there would be much interaction at this age.
She gets a ton of kisses, hugs, finger jabs and hair pulls (all out of love – I hope!) from her big sis who just can’t wait to play with her.
Miss S (2.75 years) | Miss El (3 weeks)
Another thing about our Miss El is that her lips shape up into a smile more than I thought a newborn could. As hard as its been in the last month, seeing that makes everything more manageable. (South Asian culture says that when a baby smiles they are remembering their past life. I like to think she recognizes us and is happy to see us)
Along with all those smiles is a lot of crying and night wakes. So it balances it out I guess! (haha)