#LearnWithTLY – On being productive, dreaming big and handling it all

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Miss S and I at the Children’s Discovery Museum in Toronto

Few weeks ago, I was asked to participate in a women’s mentorship program at a local business school.  Dates and times have been finalized and now I will be meeting with a group of young women to discuss the topic of “Doing it All”.

Going back to work after Maternity Leave, Being a loving Mom and Wife, Daughter and Sister….Pursing creative interests, self teaching, as well as trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle ..may make it seem like I am doing it all but really I am just doing what makes me happy at the same time the best that I can for my family.

I am approaching the upcoming fireside chat like “advice I would give my 10 year younger self.  So here goes…

  1. Goals and Gratitude, write it down:  I am a big believer in writing things down, whether it’s a To Do list or your goals for the next five years.  The physical act of putting your thoughts onto a paper really makes your mind grasp what needs to be done and it doesn’t hurt to send out those vibes to the universe.
  2. Ask for help:  Yes we women can do it all, but that doesn’t mean you can give 100% of yourself to everything.  Whether it’s full time daycare, a part time nanny, a housekeeper, grandparents or even letting your partner do something his way – it’s OK!  Message here is don’t burn yourself out.
  3. Make time for yourself: pamper, appointments, workout, meditate, eat your vitamins.  Coming back to point 2 above.  You really have to take care of yourself otherwise you will 100% burn out!
  4. Keep learning:  This is a big one.  Be a lifelong learner.  Take a course or earn a masters.  Go on training or find free online courses to help you learn something new.  Attempt a different skill or try doing something out of your comfort zone.  Never stop learning, because life never stops teaching.

PS: if you haven’t been, the Children’s Discovery Museum in Toronto is something definitely worth checking out!


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